Today’s daily prompt is the word “buff.” I’m not sorry to say that I pictured a buff male body first (we’re talking front of romance books, ya know?), my not-really-buff figure second (although I knocked out a 6:25 mile on the treadmill yesterday so I can’t complain), and buffing out wax on a vehicle third—just to come up with something other than nicely shaped bodies. But really, what is a buff body worth anyway?
I’ve been a nurse for nine years, and I’ve seen a lot of bodies. I can honestly say the buff bodies of fantasy books are few and far between, but I’ve had some patients truly impress me when they talk about staying in shape. The most impressive are the ones who are elderly or have chronic diseases who are still trying to do what they can to promote the health of their bodies. I had one patient in his late 80’s who goes to the gym three times a week and had never been in the hospital until something got in the way of the flow (if you don’t know what I mean ask an older guy). I had one patient have a goal to do a 300 lb bench press on his 60th birthday, and after his heart cath wanted to ask his cardiologist if he was allowed to still try. I had a patient with COPD who managed to walk five miles a day throughout the year to make sure he could do what he could to prolong his health. How I wish everyone had this kind of motivation! I love hearing people talk about going for walks or hiking or biking, but to be honest, I have a feeling there’s not a lot of follow-through. It’s something to keep up with (and not just once a month, dearest hubby).
I go running regularly and find trails by nice homes and take the kids to the park when possible. It is amazing how few people are engaged in outdoor exercise or play when we go. I always wonder where the heck is everyone? This world is chock full of people, but very few are out even on nice days. According to the CDC (2013), “The U.S. government recommends adults get at least 2.5 hours of moderate-intensity aerobic exercise each week or one hour and 15 minutes of vigorous-intensity activity, or a combination of both.” And in the study of 450,000 Americans from all 50 states, SELF-REPORTED exercise habits were surveyed: 80% do not reach these recommendations. I emphasized self-reported because, let’s face it, perceptions are probably not very accurate, so the results could potentially be worse. I don’t like knowing 80% of my community might become patients even sooner or in worse condition due to lack of exercise. With parks and trails, home gym equipment, exercise videos, sidewalks, a variety of sports, classes and opportunities, what is everyone waiting for? A miracle?!?!?
God designed our bodies to move and work, and He designed nature and fresh air to enjoy. We might not need a buff body (although, if you got it, enjoy your blessing and forgive my second glances), but everyone must move! And move often before you end up in a hospital bed with side rails and a nurse named Emily trying to get you out of bed to “ambulate in the hallway!” Because I will.
I normally write witty, silly things (just read my homepage if you don’t believe me) but today I’m digressing to a woman’s topic where I might just take the non-feminist side of the debate. Feel free to leave comments/debate/opinions, just not pictures of breasts please. According to the Washington Post, there was a mother who breastfed her 19-month-old in church and was asked to go to a private room, and was later told the church does not allow breastfeeding without a cover so that others will not feel uncomfortable. The mother posted her dispute on Facebook and she won’t return to that church because she feels unwelcome.
Now, I support breastfeeding. No argument there. I am even grateful that public places are making special rooms and providing laws to protect people who breastfeed in public. I loved the cozy little room at the Indianapolis Museum of Art that was specially designed for breastfeeding mothers. Hurray! But, I don’t think it’s too much to ask for a mom to use a cover when she’s in public. I don’t. I’m sorry. Where it may be a baby’s food source, it is also a sex organ that visually causes reactions–ever since, well, Adam and Eve (thanks a lot you two). Now, if you have a wardrobe malfunction, that’s another (sort of humorous) situation. But not using a blanket or cover while breastfeeding might very well make people uncomfortable. Being discreet is called courtesy. Baby gets the very best nutrition in the world; boobies hidden and no one feels awkward. Sounds like a win/win to me.
The debate on the Washington Post website is quite lengthy. But, what do you think?
When I was a kid, I had a fear of escalators. The part that scared me the most was not the going up and down bit, it was the fact that the gray, ribbed stairs disappeared into some horrifying realm that you could only enter as flat and splat. I was convinced that I could be sucked into it if I didn’t step off the darn thing in time. And of course I didn’t want to look clumsy as I stepped off; we were usually at fancy department stores after all. So the trick was to step off the escalator gracefully and confidently while secretly hiding the fear of being pulled into the abysmal depths of torture. My heart would race at each end of the horrifying trip, and would recover with overwhelming gratitude when the treacherous mission was accomplished.
What didn’t help was one of my earliest childhood memories was stepping on an escalator at my parent’s wedding at the (super classy) Hyatt Regency. My twin sister, who may have had similar angst, and I were wee little girls in beautiful dresses, holding our grandmother’s hands on either side as we all stepped onto an escalator together. The part I remember most was that there was a green glow from underneath the escalator. Not kidding. A green glow—the Goblin of Hell beaming his emerald light to distract poor escalator riders so that they would fall into the very pits of despair. And that is exactly what happened. We fell. All three of us. And Grandma wasn’t a tiny person. I don’t even know how it happened really, my mind blocked out the sequence of events, but I still blame the Goblin of Hell. Grandma Rose probably blamed the wee little girls.
The point is: Be careful on escalators. Okay? Especially the ones that glow green. And if you do fall, you may not be sucked into hell, but flat and splat won’t feel very good. Sorry, Grandma.
I had two kids home sick from school today, so we played some quick, non-mind-draining board games. Chutes and Ladders, anyone? But being the curious thinker that I can sometimes be, the non-mind-draining game struck me as worth thinking about from the writer’s perspective. Are those chuckles coming from you? Think I’ve caught a bug from the kids that made me delirious? Give me a second! Try to visualize the game as it’s being played, it shows your protagonist (you) moving along toward a well-defined goal. You are more excited when you start the game in action–like spinning a one and getting to go up the ladder right away (the hook!). When you don’t move along at a good pace, it’s like the story that doesn’t go anywhere–boring. You move along the game, making good decisions and bad decisions and experiencing (inevitable) let downs and achievements. You fight against the antagonists (your opponents) who are also having their ups and downs–and sometimes acting almost heroic, like the villain you love/hate. And on the very last row you can quite possibly run into three chutes which really ramps up the excitement (the climax!). So, now you can see how the Chutes and Ladders story structure works. Of course, like any book or game, it just feels better when the protagonist wins! Oh, sorry kids.
Sitting on the exam table, the paper crinkles underneath Gretchen’s legs. She inhales through her nose and tilts her head to the ceiling and tries to make the ceiling interesting while waiting for the doc. At the first twitch in her neck, she rolls her head down and starts to massage her numerous aches—first neck, then back. Any day now, lady. She glances at her white Nurse Mates watch; the second hand barely moves.
The doc breezes in through the door; she is wearing a lab coat and stethoscope and a don’t-bother-me-I’m-working look. “Gretchen, nice to see you again. I heard you’ve had a few symptoms lately? Your CBC and chemistry are all normal. Your vital signs are text book. Tell me what’s going on?” Continue reading